REVIEW MOVIE

Long time i didn’t write review movies. So today, I will review some movies that I had watched.

Krampus

One day, Dila and me stayed in Bandung while my mother, my father and Kak Anis were in Depok. We didn’t know what we had to do. Suddenly Dila said that she wanted to watch horror movie. Because I had no idea about what movie we could wacth, then Dila said how about Krampus. She watched the trailer in XXI a few days ago and she thought Krampus was good. So we went to dvd room near of our house.

How about this movie? Hmm I think this movie is standar, if I make a rating, I give point 5/5 hehe. Dila said this isn’t movie she wanted to watch hmmm. We choosed a wrong one wkwk. There are Krampus the old one and the new one. And the real movie she wanted to watch is the new one hehe.

Krampus. It’s about a monster that pnly appear in christmast. There’s a little grl (I forget her name). She lived with her mother. But she didn’t like her mother. Everybody who the girl doesn’t like would be killed by the monster. This monster’s called Krampus. The monster killed everybody who hated b the girl, include her mother, her father’s friend, her teacher. I really forget about the end. Maybe because in my opinion there’s no special thing in this movie, so I forget it fast. Hehe.

Secretly, Greatly 

There're three agents of North Korea lived in South Korea. They masquarades as an idiot, rocker player wanna be and a student. They have to be a spionase. After a long time lived in South Korea, they confused what they have to do. They just waited and waited for another mission but it didn’t come. So they lived as South Korean people, made a friends with citizen and built their own life their but they never forgot their mission there.

Suddenly there’s a instruction that all agent in South Korean must be killed. It because to save their secret. The three agents didn’t want to be killed. They tried to fight together. But in the end, all of them died in their own ways. They died by helping each other.

This is laras’s. First time I saw the cover, in my opinion this was a kind of comedy film –or comedy romantic-. But in fact, it’s not like that. This is a horror one, horror comedy film.

There were 7 students who wanted to go to pukhet islan after exam. So they went to phuket by bus. One of their friend warned them to not come near the beach, because there was tsunami. They didn’t believe him.

Instead of played in beach, they lost in a forest. The sky became dark, so they set up the tent. But there were a storm and rain. They tried to find a place to shelter from heavy rain. Finnaly they found an old house, then slept there.

When they woke up, they found so many oddities in that house. There were so many corpses, then the corpses suddenly became zombies and tried to catch them. The corpses were died by tsunami. Luckily, 7 students were saved from zombies. They stranded in coast. I tought this was the end of story. But I wrong. When they just woke up from fainting, tsunami came. Tsunami dragged them, but their life saved. But there’s one of them had paralysis because of tsunami. He couldn’t walking or speaking normally again.

Even there were always comedies in every scene, but in the end of story, it was very sad. This movie told us that we can never know what will happen in the future, even one second from now. We also have to save our earth, because Allah had give all the facilities for our life, sky, water, air, fruits, vegetables, fish etc. Our task is just to save our earth, because if we didn’t do it, earth can be dangerous. Thanks you hey Thailand movie, you make me realize how precious it all.

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Alhamdulillah

Mengucapkan "alhamdulillah" adalah salah satu cara kita untuk bersyukur. Kadang ketika hati ini tidak puas dan pikiran sibuk dengan banyak komplen, mengucapkan alhamdulillah bisa menjadi salah satu cara untuk mengingat atas hidup kita nikmat Allah itu banyak sekali.

Alhamdulillah

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Should you just be yourself, or not?

I was sitting in my office listening to a very frustrated patient discuss why she hated dating—“I’m just so sick of it,” she said, “the fakeness, the games, the BS,I just want to be myself.”  I nodded at the sentiment, I had heard it many times before, “and who are you?” I asked.  She looked at me with an totally blank stare.

What most people mean when they say they want to be themselves is that they want to be relaxed and comfortable, authentic, free to express themselves, and they dont's want to be worried about being judged for doing it. But being yourself sn't as simple as it seems because you do't have one self, there are multiple versions of who you are. there is the self you are at work, the self you are with your best friends, the self you are with your family, the self you are with total strangers. there is your irritable self, your calm self, your social self, your kind slf, your selfish self, and your best self. sometimes you like yourself and sometimes you don't. We are ever changing beings.

Having a self that adapts to different situations is a highly desirable characteristic that demonstrates what psychologists refer to as EQ (emotional quotient) AKA socialintelligence. Having good social intelligence reflects having knowledge of your own power to decide which self you want to be in any given situation. social intelligence reflects having knowledge of your own power to decide which self you want to be in any given situation.

If a friend tries to make you laugh by telling you a joke that isn't funny, you could be your truthful self and say it wasn't funny, which might hurt your friend's feelings, or you could be your sensitive caring self who smiles because you want to make your friend feel good.

What is important to know is whether the self you are being at any given moment is a self that you like and/or whether that self is helping you achieve your goals and the things you want in life. Being your sarcastic self with your friends might make them laugh, but it probably won't land you the job you are interviewing for. Yelling at a co-worker who makes a mistake might be a way to release your authentic anger in the moment but it won't gain his/her cooperation or motivation to help you in the future.

So how do you reconcile the desire to “be yourself” with situations where you are feeling unable to be authentic?

Recognize that you don’t just have one self. You have choices about which self to be, and being adaptable is a good trait that reflects intelligence and awareness about the effect you have on other people and your potential to influence situations.  Just because you hold back expressing certain thoughts or behaving in certain ways doesn’t mean you aren’t being yourself, it means you are being an aware version of yourself that knows when certain self-expression is appropriate and when it isn’t. You can still respect your desire for self-expression of certain aspects of your personality by finding appropriate outlets. If you have an aggressive streak, then take up a boxing class, or play paint ball, don’t run people off the road. Learning how to express the diverse aspects of who you are as a person can be one of the greatest joys of life and an essential part of maintaining your emotional well-being. On the other hand, learning how to express yourself in a socially intelligent way is critical to your success in life and will be greatly appreciated by those around you.

1. Goleman, Daniel. 2006. Social Intellegence : The New Science of Human Relationships. Macmillan, New York.

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